Have you ever been called “hot”? Do you consider yourself to be “hot”? [post_ads]What does “hot” even mean? Is this about beauty, fitness, the combination of the two, or is it some weird trait that you either possess or you don’t? Well, the truth is, being hot has little to do with looking perfect and matching all the criteria of conventional beauty. It’s not about being size zero, having long blonde hair, a tiny waist, big boobs or a nice bum. It’s not about perfect makeup and designer dresses either. Being hot is all about embracing yourself the way you are and going with it. Being unapologetically you. We rarely think of it that way. We think being hot is something we need to become, something almost unachievable. But the truth is, you probably already are hot and you don’t even know it. Here are 8 signs you’re hotter than you think you are, take a look at yourself and see which ones already apply to you.
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Your Personality Matters
While being cynical and sarcastic is funny at times, it gets old pretty quickly. Think about it this way, you wouldn’t want to be around a negative Nancy, would you? People with a positive outlook are much more enjoyable to hang out with. So if you’re one of those happy people who finds the positive in any situation – add another point to your hotness.
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Being Positive Is Key
While being cynical and sarcastic is funny at times, it gets old pretty quickly. Think about it this way, you wouldn’t want to be around a negative Nancy, would you? People with a positive outlook are much more enjoyable to hang out with. So if you’re one of those happy people who finds the positive in any situation – add another point to your hotness.
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You Are Confident
Confidence is very attractive. If you’re confident it shows in everything you do and in how you carry yourself. [post_ads_2]There’s literally nothing hotter than being confident. So if you’ve got that – you’re mega hot. If not, fake it till you make it. Even if you just appear confident, people will be drawn to you, and with time and practice you’ll actually become confident and won’t even have to fake it.
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Being Independent Is Good
The old damsel in distress charade isn’t fooling anyone. No one wants a girl who’s constantly relying on everyone else to do stuff for her and can’t do anything by herself. It’s just not cool. Having your sh*t together and being a strong, independent woman that don’t need no man is hot. It’s weird how that works, but it’s true. Also, life is just so much easier if you’re self-sufficient.
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You’re Not Trend Obsessed
Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to keep up with fashion, but having your own style is way more important and way hotter. When a woman dresses the way she wants to and the way that makes her feel comfortable and good – she looks way hotter than when she’s blindly following trends.
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You Have Goals And Know How To Achieve Them
There’s a lot of people who have dreams, they live in their head and believe that if they just wish really really hard, or wait long enough things will just happen. [post_ads_2]The truth is, you’ve got to set goals, not dreams and work hard to achieve them. If you’re a goal getter – you’re super hot. It’s awesome when a person sets their bar high and works towards it.
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You’re Healthy
Taking care of yourself and staying healthy is definitely hot. While it might seem cool to eat junk and sit on your couch watching movies all day, in the end you’ll end up looking like a slob. So making sure you feed your body with good nutrients and getting a decent workout a couple of times a week always wins. Healthy eating and exercise make you not only look good but feel good too
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Staying Out Of Drama
Drama and gossip are massively unattractive. It’s better to leave that stuff behind, after you leave school. In the real world no one really wants to be involved in any sort of drama. [post_ads_2]Plus, it’s just not nice to gossip about people. So if you stay out of drama, and don’t put your nose where it doesn’t belong you’re good. If you’re a drama-free lady you’re definitely hotter than you think.
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